It’s Here! The Psycho Ex-Wife Forum!
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Well, we’ve made references to it several times in recent weeks and we’re very happy to announce the unveiling of our PSYCHO EX-WIFE FORUMS!!! <<< Yes, this is the registration link! Sign-up and prepare to participate.
Essentially, we wanted to offer a place for people to both seek and offer advice & suggestions from a broader range of perspectives and experiences. For now, the forums will feature the topics we talk about the most
- Custody
- Child-Support
- Mental Health
- Legal
- Parenting, Step-Parenting, Foster Parenting
- Low-Contact and No-Contact
- FANTASY EMAILS!
- Relationships
- There is even a Community Board for off-topic discussions
This, of course, is also a gender-neutral community. As we’ve said many times, we know and hear stories from people about psycho ex-husbands as well as those who write about psycho ex-wives. Many of the suggestions on this blog and in these forums will prove helpful whether you’re dealing with a PEW or a PEH (or even a PEBF or PEGF).
We expect a wide range of discussions on all kinds of topics and then some. We expect easy discussions and sometimes very tough discussions. We appreciate all of it and are looking forward to the opinions, suggestions, and feedback on all of them.
If you believe you or anyone you know are dealing with situations as tough as those that have been discussed on this blog for over a year now, send them the link! Whether they are a custodial parent or a non-custodial parent… dealing with parental alienation… are frustrated or are happy with a divorce or custody court experience… have had to deal with restraining order abuse or other false accusations… need advice on parenting or step-parenting in the aftermath of a divorce… or you can offer some thoughts and suggestions to help others who need a lift no matter what the situation is… register and participate.
To all of you who read and participate in any way, a very big THANK YOU!
January 6th, 2009 at 3:17 am
Thank you for the forum invite. I believe this is an appropriate way to communicate with others and learn from others, about troubling situations in marriages which involve mental health issues of spouses; as well as other marital issues. This seems very proffesional now.
February 13th, 2009 at 12:05 am
My husband’s ex-wife is the CRAZY-EST psycho on earth. He filed for divorce from her 10 years ago and never went back. She uses their daughter as a “pawn”/ weapon against him and the GAMES, constant games she plays with this child at the center is SICK. Now, she has the one man she briefly dated (for a few months) STALKING US. We are being VIOLATED in every possible way!!!! It is so frustrating being the central focus of some bitter psycho ex-wife that is hell-bent on destroying me and my husband. She hates my husband on a obsessive level. But not nearly as much as we loathe this lonely pathetic woman. We her child becomes an adult, she should know how much her mother USED HER ruthlessly against her father. FATHERS HAVE NO RIGHTS.
October 11th, 2009 at 5:10 pm
The story of Rhonda. Well, she went to college at UNC and wanted to do journalism, and then realized she had zero creativity, so she switched to speech therapy. She met her husband, Ted, who was a music producer, and started his own business from scratch, (which can be feast or famine for most entrepreneurs depending on the economy), but she was well aware of this before she decided to marry him. She was apparently so intelligent (because she accomplished college), that she didn’t even second guess this marriage, even though they had absolutely nothing in common, knew he had an unstable business, and had to threaten to leave him if he didn’t give her children and marry her already. Totally in it for the right reasons, right? This was a good deal for Ted, she had a steady paycheck and was “smart”. They had 2 kids together, the second one deaf. Luckily, it is the day of cochlear implants, and now he is just like a normal boy. Ted had been struggling with alcoholism ever since he met Rhonda, and after he made a huge dent in the bank of Rhonda,and lost control over his actions, he checked himself into rehab. Rhonda didn’t care to involve herself in this rehabilitation process. She said “all those meetings for the spouses just try to make you feel bad for the alcoholics.” He listened to everything they told him and is now 3 years sober. As soon as Ted was able to stand on his own two feet again, she told him it was time for a divorce, (little did he know that she was having an affair with a sunday school teacher that had a ‘christian magician’ act for a year during Ted’s rehabilitation before this was declared). Through sickness and health - YEA! So she filed for divorce and demands $850 a month from Ted (who’s business happens to be suffering big time from the economy, so he tries to pick up some slack with a second job at the local college as a music teacher. She also got the land that Ted had been putting payments on every month so that they could build a house later on. She took it and sold it for $43,000. Ted took nothing from the house because he didn’t want to disrupt his boys’ lives. He didn’t want the divorce, because he knew it would be hard on them. She moves into a town house and becomes a born again Christian, (handbells, church all the time, puts the kids in every possible activity) moves onto her second boyfriend, Corky, who has 2 kids of his own, and within 2 months of knowing each other, they take all the kids and go to Disney World as one big happy family. The same week Rhonda buys a Lexus SUV, she sent her children to school with holes in their shoes, so Jimm took his last $20 and bought them new ones and went without dinner that week. Meanwhile, everyday Rhonda asks, “where’s my money?!” She has not taken him to court yet, so I suppose that is a nice thing. She has enrolled her oldest son, 10, into therapy, because he is not coping well. They fight all the time and all he wants is to live with daddy. The younger, 7, is less of a handful, so Rhonda takes him along everywhere, while dropping Stephan off wherever she can so she won’t have to deal with him. Most of the time he is dropped off with Ted’s parents who have never once turned down watching after him. (highly opposite of her parents) And even though they go out of their ways to do so, she always yells at them for doing something wrong, and is always too lazy to go pick them up. Sometimes, in my observing, I feel like she’s almost happy to have a deaf child, because it makes her seem so much more caring when every activity she enrolls him in, she gets to socialize with the other parents and hear how amazing she is for being so “involved”. She completely ignores the older, all special treatment is for the younger. The older always cries out about “Why can’t just the 3 of us hang out, why do I always have to see Corky?(who spends the night in her room and brings his kids over to stay in their townhouse). She doesn’t accept this, and will not yield. So all in all, my conclusion of Rhonda after personally hearing her tell her children that their daddy is not a good daddy because he can’t pay for their lunch, I think she is totally fake, extremely selfish, cannot see the bigger picture for the life of her, and wears really tacky clothes