The Psycho Ex Wife is the true account of a marriage, divorce, and subsequent custody fight between a loving man, his terroristic ex-wife who we suspect suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder (at least from our armchair psychologist diagnosis), and the husband's new partner. We are not simply anti-mother or pro-father ... Read more
The site is intended to help people in similar situations. I have always felt like no one really knew or quite understood the level of chaos that had existed in my life, and this is a way to express it all without burdening personal friends and family with such horrors ... Read More
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From our family to yours, we wish everyone the Happiest Thanksgiving of all for all of you and your loved ones.
May your day be full of great food, great family, and great friends. Most importantly, may be it full of peace and love for all of you.
Most Sincerely,
Mister-M, DW, and the crew
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November 27th, 2009 at 7:51 am
thanks dw and mister m, it turned out to be one of the worst years you could imagine. my partner got his divorce, but lost visitation with his children, his PEW alienated and used them in their divorce, he did nothing but move on after she cheated and walked out on him and wanted nothing to do with him. we had to walk away, when the children are old enough they will know what happened, we hope, after all they have lived through it. until then we had to get his PEW out of our lives. we are engaged and getting ready for the future. the courts in this country work to separate children from their fathers. I have witnessed it twice in the same court, same judge, different men I love.
this website taught us how to deal with our PEW, and after our judgement it was just to sad and raw to read here. however, I want to really thank you both for your guidance and wisdom. our best to you both. we are giving thanks, sarah
November 27th, 2009 at 12:21 pm
Mister-M - Prior to your site, not having my children with me for the holiday was very upsetting. Reading about how you deal with holidays/special days has helped me a lot. DH and I have no kids this year for Thanksgiving, but we found a way to enjoy the holiday with just each other, and we will celebrate with all the kids on another day. Thanks for all your help.
November 28th, 2009 at 8:51 am
As long as we’re sharing stories.
I learned at Thanksgiving about my step father’s boss who everyone thinks is a great guy.
When the reality is, that he started a sexual relationship with this then 14 year old babysitter, when he was in his mid 20’s.
When she got out of high school, he left his wife and married her.
She DEMANDED that he never see his children who were then 7 and 9.
Can you imagine?
So he obeyed her, and had three children with her and has never seen his children since.
They are now in their 50’s.
What hell do these two retire to?
November 28th, 2009 at 8:34 pm
I am into the 2009 holiday season with a big difference this year, I do not have my son. I also was married to a PEW, but with a twist, she and her family were great friends of both the GAL and the judge. My son turned out to be a victim of this triage. As a Dad I was at a huge disadvantage in divorce and especially placement and with the deck further stacked with the GAL and family friendly judge, my children really suffered. Mom admitted to incest and the children complained, frequently, of inappropriate touching and actions by Mom’s family, all to no avail. His mothers last abuse of him was last November when she beat him about the face and head and choked him quite severally, the marks lasted over 10 days. The cops did nothing. My son hung himself in June to escape the pains that he couldn’t talk to anyone about. His complaints while in the custody of the family court went straight to Mom, and she and her brothers always made sure that both children knew who was in charge. My son was a very intelligent, friendly young man, with a huge heart. He had almost 500 entries in the guest book at his service. He is missed now and will be for ever. I feel cheated, and was, for not being allowed to give my son a proper home and childhood. He will always be loved and missed.
November 28th, 2009 at 10:18 pm
We’re very sorry for your loss, Lonely Dad. May you find some sense of peace as you move forward.
November 29th, 2009 at 5:27 pm
I hope your Thanksgiving holidays were a smooth one. The rain of terror has just started and will be to the point of me not wanting to get out of bed by Christmas. It is this way every year. Thank you for your blog, it gives us hope.
November 29th, 2009 at 5:33 pm
Lonely Dad,
I cried when I read your post. Your situation is very similar to mine, but my children as of yet have not taken that last most final step.
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you heal from this tragedy.
December 2nd, 2009 at 8:51 am
Lonely Dad, Im so so sorry for the loss of your dear son. I cannot imagine the heartache you are going through. You are in my prayers and I sincerely hope you can get through this pain and move on with your life. What an awful world we live in.